It does happen during the day as well, not just nights. It just makes it even worse at nights in cloth when his bum is already red. Sitting in wee so so long just melts his skin when its already red.
His bum was red a day or so ago so I used sposies for a few days and yesterday I used cloth, last night I thought "All better" so I used cloth again and it was flared up again this morning. Now, later in the day I can see that the skin has 'melted' off from his balls at the base, very sore looking. Its kinda scabbing now. Must have been that the skin wasn't 100% healed when I put him in cloth last night - oh, and I didn't use cream last night
I am going to try some silk liners and do what you suggested Kristy and have it folded in half or something to see if its helps.
I dont think he is teething anymore cause he has 8 teeth on the top and bottom now so the next ones are his 2yo and he has just cut his eye teeth. Is it that he only cut them a few days ago so he is still 'teething'??