[mum2one]

I've tried everything and I'm at a loss. Felicity in the last few weeks has *finally* decided that doing wee's in the pot and /or toilet is the thing to do but will she do poo's in the toilet/potty? -Nooooooo.

I'm really over poo in her underpants.

I've tried everything and to no avail. I know it takes time and I think I've been patient but it is almost deliberate.

I will be checking, asking, putting her on the pot, reading to her whilst sitting etc etc and then the 5 mins I'm not on the ball or busy with Scott she will do it in her pants and then sometimes tell me about it, sometimes just pretend it's not there until it's mashified into her bum.

I thought at first it was due to the myriad of changes and or problems we've been facing since the beginning of the year and I just needed to be patient . We went through a stage - about a week where it was both on the pot/toilet but that quickly disappeared and we went to no wee and poo anywhere except the floor or pants and have progressed back to about three weeks of all wee's on the pot but poo's are in her pants only.

We haven't been constipated so it's not a painful experience/memory type thing.

I know I probably just need to step back and chill but it's getting to be a real pain.

Sorry, stupid rant I know but it's wearing me out.