Thank you so much for your replies. It sounds like I should definitely be unsnapping because we have quite a rough top loading machine. The fitteds that we have are some BBB, some Daysies and Bizy Bees, I think that's right but it's too hard to go and check when stuck on the couch

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Thanks for the welcome, I'll introduce myself properly when baby arrives (v soon I hope) and then I can introduce both of us, and I'm sure I'll have lots of questions once we actually get started.

I don't know anybody irl that uses cloth, so I'm doing it all on what I have learnt from the net so I'm excited and nervous.